I was gifted one of these after a conversation with Jimmy, the guy that makes them.
We were talking about the benefits of Orgasm to your body. It’s why vibrators were invented! The physiological, chemical and well being benefits of an orgasm are thankfully now commonly known and slowly but surely it is now becoming a less taboo subject in the realisation that women want and do enjoy sex.
So it’s a rainy child free Saturday night and I’m becoming increasingly bored with the shallow and frequent sext messages that seem to appear in the Facebook and instagram inbox when you are a single Mum in a small town, I decided to open the Pillowsforeplay box to see if its more empowering than secretly laughing at guys who send you pictures of their ugly penis’ and expect you to send them pictures of your tits and more in return!
Like most Saturdays when my son is at his Dad’s house I decided to have a pamper evening (if you’re a busy Mum too you’ll know these nights are few and far between) bath and glass of wine to try it out.
When I opened the box everything inside was neatly wrapped and packed, mine had arrived with a beautiful pink, sateen pillowslip with a small and stylish embroidered logo which gave an air elegance to it. I believe the pillow slips come in black and purple too! The pillow itself is separately packed and surprisingly is not at all clinical (I hear that they are made of medical grade material and don’t know what I was expecting) it’s warm and soft and has a skin like quality to it without the slip.
I got to reading the note-let of instructions. It was as easy as putting a regular pillow in it’s slip, I used the pipes to inflate the pillow slightly and zipped the slip up with the bulb of the pressure valve outside as I knew I’d need access to this to secure my toy.
One of it’s claims to fulfilment that the pillow has is being able to securely hold almost any sex toy so I got to choosing which I’d try, I chose my favourite the rampant rabbit. I set it to number 2 on the ‘rampant scale’ and squeezed the cusp to secure it in place. Door locked and lights dimmed, I put on my favourite porn and got to riding the pillow. I just hovered over my rabbit with my clit buzzing the shaft inside. I like to use baby oil and have since found that this works better without the slip for obvious reasons! This was a whole different experience as normally I need my hand to go ‘solo’ and it’s usually laid on my back, so to have both hands free to grab whatever I wanted and to be on top was totally empowering. It also has a totally different feel of sensitivity and pressure to all those erogenous zones of your foof! Who knew that your labia when stimulated by vibrations and air can add to the pleasure of orgasm. It’s all in the air you know! The pillow moves if you squeeze it !! and when you squeeze it right it moves “right” so one of my favourite ways to use the pillow is to be sitting on the side of the bed and to pull it into me to grind on it while having my clit stimulated.
Sitting on P4P and the way it moves to your every flick or flinch is really engaging, I have learned more about my body while using the pillow than I have ever before in sexual relationships.
I’d say it really is like riding a wave, you’re in complete control which is why I love it!
I have recommended this product to so many friends that too love it, my gay best friend and his partner have one too and claim that it is the most un menacing threesome that they have ever had! So a definite for brave couples too.
Mine is now called Big Rabbie, he’s always there. I found that it is so easy to keep discreet either in the original pillow slip turned over on my bed or deflated enough in a regular pillow case ,never too far away for when I need it….this way it is always so tempting to have just one more ride or grind.
What have I got to lose. ???
